Start here if ChatGPT still feels scary

You don’t need a course or a new career. In one short page you’ll get: what AI actually is, which free videos to watch, and clear do / don’t lists for home, school, and work — plus the secrets you should never paste into a chatbot.

AI is not magic and it is not a person. The tools people mean when they say “AI” right now (ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini, Copilot, image generators) are pattern machines: they predict useful-looking text, images, or code from huge amounts of training data. They can save hours — and they can also be confidently wrong, leak secrets you paste in, or help scammers write better fake texts.

This is the starter kit we wish everyone got. Scroll the checklist, pick one video, try three practice prompts, then send the share blurb to family.

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Jump to 1. What you should learn (checklist) 2. Best starter videos 3. Home & family — do / don’t 4. School & students — do / don’t 5. Work & small business — do / don’t 6. What to do this week 7. Never paste this into AI 8. AI-powered scams

1. What you should learn (in order)

  1. What generative AI is (and isn’t). It’s a tool that drafts from patterns — not a search engine that “knows” the truth, not a friend, not a lawyer/doctor.
  2. How to open one free chat tool and ask a clear question. Free options: ChatGPT, Claude, Gemini. Pick one. Don’t install ten apps.
  3. Prompting basics. Say the goal, the audience, the format, and the constraints. Example: “Explain this bank email to a 70-year-old in 5 bullets. Don’t invent bank names.”
  4. Fact-check habit. Anything important (medical, legal, money, news, school facts) gets verified on an official site or a second source.
  5. Privacy habit. Assume anything you type could be stored or reviewed. Never put secrets in free public chats.
  6. Scam awareness. AI makes package / bank / job texts sound more “real.” Learn to pause and check — our free ScamCheck and PhoneCheck help.
  7. When to use AI vs when to do it yourself. Drafts, outlines, brainstorming, rewrites, explanations = good. Final decisions about money, health, legal, and relationships = human + official sources.

2. Best starter videos (and a couple of written guides)

These are solid starting points, not the only good videos forever. Watch one that matches your life, then practice for 20 minutes.

3. Home & family

✓ Do

  • Use AI to draft recipes, trip plans, thank-you notes, “explain this like I’m 12.”
  • Sit with kids the first few times they use chat tools.
  • Turn on parental controls where the product offers them.
  • Teach: “If a stranger AI says transfer money, hang up and call family on a known number.”
  • Paste weird texts into ScamCheck before tapping links.

✗ Don’t

  • Don’t give kids under 13 unsupervised accounts (most tools require 13+ / parent permission).
  • Don’t paste family SSNs, medical charts, or full tax returns into free chatbots.
  • Don’t trust AI “voice of your kid” calls — verify out-of-band.
  • Don’t use AI as a therapist or doctor for crises — call real help.
  • Don’t buy “AI investment” courses that promise guaranteed wealth.

4. School & students

✓ Do

  • Ask your school’s AI policy before using tools for graded work.
  • Use AI to quiz you, explain a concept, outline an essay — then write in your own words.
  • Cite tools if your teacher requires it (same honesty as citing Wikipedia).
  • Check math and science answers by re-doing the steps yourself.
  • For research: start with library databases / textbooks, then use AI to clarify.

✗ Don’t

  • Don’t submit AI text as your own if the syllabus forbids it (integrity + often detectable).
  • Don’t upload other students’ work or unpublished exam PDFs.
  • Don’t paste full essays into random “AI detector / humanizer” sites of unknown trust.
  • Don’t assume “AI said it” = correct citation or real source.
  • Don’t share school login passwords with AI “homework helper” apps.

5. Work & small business

✓ Do

  • Use company-approved tools when they exist (work Copilot / enterprise chat).
  • Draft emails, SOPs, job posts, meeting agendas — then edit hard.
  • Anonymize examples (“Customer A in the Midwest…”) instead of real client names.
  • Write a one-page AI policy: what’s allowed, what’s banned, who to ask.
  • Keep a human final review for anything public or customer-facing.

✗ Don’t

  • Don’t paste customer data, health info, payroll, source code secrets, or unreleased financials into free public AI.
  • Don’t put passwords, API keys, or private keys in prompts.
  • Don’t auto-send AI emails without reading them (tone fails + factual mistakes).
  • Don’t ignore industry rules (HIPAA, finance, legal privilege).
  • Don’t rely on AI alone for legal contracts or tax filings.

6. What to do now (this week)

  1. Pick one free tool and create an account with a strong unique password (use a password manager — we have free helpers under Tools).
  2. Watch one beginner video from the list above (30 minutes max).
  3. Run three practice prompts:
    • “Summarize this paragraph in 5 bullets for a busy parent:” (paste a news blurb).
    • “Make a grocery list for 4 dinners under $60, US units.”
    • “Explain [topic] like I’m new. Quiz me with 5 questions after.”
  4. Write your personal red lines on a sticky note: “Never paste: bank logins, SSN, medical charts, customer lists.”
  5. Send family this page or the Common Sense Media parent guide — one forward beats a lecture.
  6. Turn on scam radar: next weird package/bank text → ScamCheck first.

7. Never paste this into a free AI chat

Hard no list

  • Passwords, one-time codes, recovery keys, crypto seed phrases
  • Social Security / national ID numbers, full passport scans
  • Bank, card, or routing numbers; tax return PDFs
  • Medical records, therapy notes, insurance member IDs
  • Customer lists, employee SSNs, unreleased earnings
  • Confidential legal documents or trade secrets
  • Kids’ full names + school + schedule + address in one go

When in doubt: rewrite the question without the secret. “Help me draft a dispute letter about a $40 charge” is fine. “Here’s my full statement PDF” is not.

8. AI made scams worse — simple defense

Scammers use AI to write fluent English, fake job offers, and even clone voices. Your defense is still boring and effective:

Quick AI starter for family: free plain-English guide (what to learn, videos, do/don’t for home & school & work): https://www.yoyosup.com/tools/blog/ai-for-dummies.html — and paste weird texts into ScamCheck first: https://www.yoyosup.com/tools/scamcheck/

Not legal, medical, or financial advice. Tools change fast — policies and free tiers shift. When something matters, verify on official sites.